Keep your messages interesting
Try and keep your first message to any member short and sweet. At this point no one is going to be that interested in how bad your day at work was. Remember this site is exciting and naughty, so use that as inspiration when writing that first message. You could even include a question, this will help give the other person something to reply with.
If you have been messaging someone for some time then your messages can be longer and more personal. But at the start we suggest keeping them to a few lines and just have some fun with it, women especially respond much better with something like, ‘I just had this crazy idea. I’m thinking of robbing a bank and was wondering if you could be my getaway driver?’ then boring old. ‘Hi how are you?’ Keep it short and sweet and you’ll be inundated with messages from our hot ozzy grannies.